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Welcome to The Communicator Blog. It is my goal at The Communicator to reduce the divorce rate by 10% or more. HOW? you may ask? This can be achieved by teaching men how to provide their wives with emotional security. Teaching men how to make a woman feel heard and understood.

My ex wife used to constantly complain that I never listened to her. I didn’t get it. I heard every word she said. I could repeat everything she said back to her. Then I would proceed to fix it. Solve her problems. Give her unsolicited advice. After all, was that not what she was asking for? I thought I was helping. When someone at work upset her I would tell her to not let it bother her. When she was upset, I would go so far as to say she shouldn’t feel that way.

The majority of men do the same thing. We think we are being the Knight in Shining Armor, charging in to be her hero and to solve her problems. Little do we know that we are doing exactly the opposite of what she needs. Over time these “wrong” things add up. Unfortunately, they add up to the point that she will give up and move on. It will come as a shock to most men. Never do we see it coming. In hindsight there were clues. I see them clearly now though I could not at the time.

The Communicator, A Man’s Guide to Better Relationships, is the result of my exploration into the role I played in my own failed marriage. My years of reading, taking classes, some therapy and even marriage counseling have been distilled into 30 simple pages of hard hitting truths that no one ever taught me and (for some reason) my wife could never convey.

Welcome to The Communicator. Stay tuned for more!